A human being can’t stay forever alone and those who do are
broken and agonized and never live life up to the fullest. That said they might
have their reasons for being alone but at some point in their life they must
have met someone who lit this spark in their hearts, triggered this desire to
be with that person but due to some sad reasons they couldn’t be fortunate
enough to go up that path. The thing is we all need somebody to be with us so
that we can’t feel alone or afraid or insecure. We all need this person whom we
can share our day with, who makes us feel all special and beautiful. Who
accepts us for being us and despite of all our weaknesses tries to make us
strong and hopeful. For that we make friends, with people around us, our family
members, random strangers we meet up on the road called life. Some go for
friendships and some prefer relationships, be it a long-distant one or close
one. Friendship and relationships are different things. Our best friend can
never be our boyfriend but our boyfriend can be our best friend. Actually I
don’t really believe in relationships or like them AT ALL.
Alright so I don’t really label things. If a guy and a girl
like each other on this path of getting to know each other, trying to create
understanding between each other and trying to bridge up the gaps that hang
there and to make other one another happy. They try to communicate and get
acquainted with each others’ habits, likes and dislikes, needs and wants.
Relationships are built on honesty, trust, care and understanding of the other
persons feelings. It can take a long while to build a relationship but only a
matter of seconds to break it. If that honesty and trust is gone relationships
never work out. They eventually end up
messed up and fade away into a painful memory which nobody wishes they had been
a part of. One sided relationships never work, meaning that if we have feelings
for someone but they don’t have those mutual feelings for us then we can never
have them, it’s hard to admit but it’s the truth, we just can’t force somebody
to be with us. Or if two people are in a relationship and the other stops
feeling the same way like they used to for their partner then again the
relationships future is next to never. Long-distance-relationships are also
painful and hurt eventually, only rarely people end up being together and that
too only if they hold onto each other for that long as they want to and never
stop feeling the same way they used to feel the first time they met each other.
Being apart from the person we love and that too someone who loves us equally
or more is something really painful and dreadful. We crave every moment to be
with them. If we’re away from that person for too long in most of the cases the
feelings fade away as the time passes by but if they people are strong
believers in love and are not the ones who let go of the person they love so
easily then the relationship can last and probably they can have a hope of
being together in the time so far to come. When being far away from each other
you don’t get to meet each other that often, see each other, touch each other
and embrace each other but just talk over the phone, text each other or just
video-chat. Things don’t work out these ways so easily.
If somebody gets caught cheating up on the other person, we
should break things with them right away. See, it’s all about understanding and
hearing each other out. We should give the person a chance to clear themselves
out to give a reason why they did what they did. And if they say they just
didn’t have any feelings for you now, just let them go and try to forget them.
Distract your mind if their thoughts keep pouring in. try to find someone else
more caring and trustworthy than them and someone who don’t just easily gives
up on you in fact who would never give up on you. Yes there are people out
there like those so don’t be scared. Just let your hearts live through it all. Try
not to hate the person who left you and forgive them because it would make you
feel peaceful. You should not want somebody for their body but for their heart.
You should give importance to the beauty they hold within not their external
beauty, well yeah that matters to some people too but it should not really be a
big deal when it comes to choosing your partners. Sometimes when in a
relationship people often do think they are in love with the other person and
that, that love would eventually last forever but it doesn’t seem to happen so.
We are mistaken. And mistakes like these are grievous for our heart. They tear
down and hurt our feelings in the end.
So just be careful who you end up with.
Live and let go.
