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Tuesday, 7 April 2026

Random ramblings

Never ever go for aggressive treatment for your loved one if and when diagnosed with a terminal illness, take out small but clear moments of decision making + istikhara for the biggest decisions... (SOLELY FOCUSED WITH, BY AND ABOUT THE PATIENT) who is a LIVING BREATHING human being with relations, their own preferences, wills and journey.. Their involvement is their right too because it's their body and nobody knows what's going on inside better than oneself.. masking hiding ignoring neglecting preferring blah blah blah that's another whole stuff...

When Dr Zeba told mama in the last appointment, '..bachon keliye krwa lou.. agr himmat hai' I now realize the words were by Allah's beautiful design signalling to mama her body has limited time on this earth... To prepare for her last moments long before she left this world .. for her attendants her daughter who was their that time 

Then at every apt her statement 'everyday is a bonus with her' it was for me, for her children for her relations.... A disclosure to us in soft terms that we've got less time left... And by Allah's grand design to get our affairs in order ... 
Hear, listen, write..... 

Whichever oncologist wherever you go to... Ask them for a support group firstly for your loved one, then for yourself. Don't forget yourself during and afterwards because it'll be a misservice, hurtful to them in barzakh.. hurtful to those around you, yourself... Those who are dependent on you, for instance your pets..your organs, body which is amanah from Allah SWT and if you do khayanah in it 
...
their spirit still hasn't crossed to Jannah the connection is always there... You just need to feel it and send your feelings after asking Allah's permission 
let yourself go 


Oh and had a beautiful beautiful thought about Urdu which maybe one day I'll pen down... Or it'll remain in the beerain ... 
TamatulBekhair (the end) 
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